After awhile dah xmenyinggah kat sini (bezaman actually) rasenye nak start entri utk 2014 cerite pasal kawan baik or people call it as BESTFRIEND gitteww :p so utk intro i think i'm going to make it short sbb rasenye sume org pun tau bestfriend tu ape. Kawan baik, org yg kite rapat dgn kite, someone yg kite rase kite blh kongsi segalenye from every angle and aspect in our life, org yg kite rase kite blh share sume bende, through ups and down dlm hidup kite ni, die ade dgn kite. Bestfriend forever a.k.a BFF la mcmtu. That what I can conclude.
The thing that I want to highlight in this entry ialah how do we treat our bestfriend or how we react towards every action of so called bff ni. Nak start merepek ni. So get ready :)
Throughout our life, kite akn diperkenalkan dgn pelbagai jenis kwn. Alhamdulillah, so far most of my friends that I've known, diorg sume best! Ade kwn baik mase tadika, naik sekolah rendah sekolah menengah jumpe lg kwn yg blh dibawak ke dpn, dkt matrik pun jumpe dgn few people that I can make friends with, up until now, sampai la Uni, I've met great people that are willing to stay and be there for me whenever I need them. Isn't that great?
Tapi, bile dah name pun kawan baik, this title doesn't allow us to treat our friends like they're nothing okay? Ade la adab nye. Seriously, if someone is willing to be there for you, willing to hear you out even though masalah kite tu bkn 'besar' sgt pun, pls have some respect la dey! Just bcos shit happen in your life, and you don't know how to sort it out, and when you ask for opinion, and when your friend didn't manage to give the right/exact response, you burst your anger towards her. No mannn thats not how things worked. Dalam hidup xboleh nak expect sume bnde akan berjalan lancar. X hidup la namenye kalau mcmtu.
Don't let your emotion to have control over yourself. La ni mmg berani la nk buat kwn tu mcmtu jgn sampai satu tahap kawan hang tu dah fed up tinggal hang sorang2 time tu padan muka. Bukan nak jahat, tapi kesian. Sampai bila? At some point, kite kene atur hidup ni dgn care kite sendiri. Bkn dok pi mengharap org lain utk atur hidup ni utk kite. Walaupun die kwn baik, don't make it as an excuse sampai kau blh buat die mcmtu, and when you'll only realize thta ur action is wrong, baru nak minta maaf tanpe memikirkan perasaan kwn tu.
SHIT kan. Sangat.
One thing you need to remember, this world doesn't revolve around you and you ONLY. Sampai bila nak act childish, cling sampai xboleh nak lepas, nak pikir baran sendiri, throw words that will hurt your friend's feeling tanpe berfikir akan menyakitkan hati dan perasaan kawan tu, SAMPAI BILA?
p/s: Sorry la first entri utk tahun ni je dah start bash org haha. Terlalu meluat tgk org yg selalu amik kesempatan atas kawan sendiri. Kawan baik pulak tu. Hopefully, things will get better and be better.
Sekian.
